"Try that a different way", an explanation

"Try that a different way", an explanation

In two threads today I said this.

Here's what I mean: your contributions matter to me, and your comment needs revising. This is probably because you punched down, and your comment could hurt others. I am hopeful that with this kind feedback you will fix it so I do not need to actively moderate.

I would only say this to people who I like, who I think got a little caught up in something strong and did not register what impact their words might have.